Stealthing is a very dangerous new sexual trend that even in Argentina is considered as rape. Consists of taking off the condom silently in full sexual act to increase more pleasure. Most of the victims are women, although gay people are also victims of stealthing . However, some people do not notice that their partner has withdrawn the condom. So you must be very careful!
How was this trend born?
An article published in the academic journal Columbia Journal of Gender and Law explains the origin of stealthing . Started in the social network Tinder that facilitates sexual encounters between strangers. Many people hesitate to regard it as a violation, which is why they did not report the case.
Is it a violation?
Currently, a violation of the sexual act is defined without the consent of the victim. It is a debate whether stealthing is considered rape because there is agreement among people to have sex. However, when one withdraws the condom, the victim is being assaulted by his sexual partner. Be it so or not, do not be afraid to report it.
Why should not you allow it?
There are many points in favor of not allowing this trend that puts your health at risk.
- Pregnancy: When ejaculating your partner inside you, there is a great possibility that you get pregnant without wanting it. Your partner or sexual partner must respect your decision to have children or not. You could end up with an unwanted and fatherless pregnancy for the baby. Be careful!
- ETS: Very rarely you know when a person has a sexually transmitted disease . Especially if this person is a stranger to you with whom you want to spend a crazy night.
- Disrespect: It is clear that stealthing is a sign of male dominance. Your sexual partner must respect your decisions and your sexual desires; Especially having your consent for anything that concerns you. If your formal partner does or wants to do this activity, immediately stop and think about your relationship.
In conclusion, you should be very cautious about having sex with strangers, especially if you know them through social networks and are not friends of yours.
