Maybe you are in the pink stage of your relationship when you can not stop falling in love with your partner. However, presenting it to your parents brings you the nasty surprise that they hate your partner. How is it possible? Before falling into a spiral filled with drama and fighting, follow these steps to see if you can achieve peace.
First of all: Respect
If you respect your boyfriend your parents will have to behave and vice versa. It does not matter if any of the parties are super rude. You have to be the mature one here and preach by example. So first of all mentalise yourself that you will always be the one to keep calm .
Listen for just in case
Sadly, disastrous relationships do exist. And regardless of our age we can get entangled with someone who does not suit us. So listen to what your parents have to say . They may be right, so at once you see receptive and open-minded. You know they want the best for you.
Take decisions
Check how much you check what shocks you. If your parents hate your partner , chances are you get defensive, because at the end of the day you want him. However, you have to be honest with yourself and evaluate how much truth there is in your parents’ arguments . Analyze whether in the future they will be right and if this relationship can end up causing you problems. And now, with a cool head, he decides whether it is worthwhile to continue the relationship or finish it. A third option is to follow the relationship for a while by paying attention to the red lights your parents told you. After two or three months you will have more information and you can reevaluate your decision.
Create peace, do not intrigue
If you decide to stay with him, it will not change the fact that your parents hate your partner. So do not force them to coexist, that will not improve the situation. And when you have to see yourself try to make the environment very casual and not alone. So you can relax and little by little, with actions, will lower the hate.
